Adoptees
Things that are NOT to be said to Adoptees:
1. You’re special because you’re adopted.
2. You were chosen.
3. Your mother loved you so much that she gave you up.
4. You’re lucky.
5. It doesn’t matter.
6. You shouldn’t be angry.
7. You shouldn’t be sad.
8. You should be careful what you ask for -- you might get it.
9. By finding her, you’re invading her life.
10. Why are you interested in someone who didn’t want you ?
11. Why do you want to find someone you didn’t ever know?
12. Ever since you started searching you have become obsessed.
13. ...but your adoptive parents love(d) you so much.
14. ...but you’re hurting your adoptive parents
15. Babies don’t remember anything.
16. You’re being ungrateful!
17. You have no respect for your adoptive parents.
18. Get over it!
19. If she loved you, she wouldn’t have given you away.
20. You’re being over sensititve
21. Forget it and get on with your life.
22. Why would you want to find her?
23. It’s the past, you can’t change it.
24. You have no right to disturb her life.
25. ...but your adoptive parents really wanted you.
26. What’s wrong? Weren’t your adoptive parents good enough?
27. You’re being selfish and disrespectful!
28. Didn’t your parents do a good enough job?
29. How many mothers do you need?
30. Oh...you’re one of them?
31. You adopted children should respect her privacy.
32. ...but you look like you come from such a good family.
33. ...but you don’t look adopted.
34. Well, maybe that’s the way it was meant to be.
35. If she didn’t want you then, why would she want you now. You’ll get rejected.
36. You might be opening Pandora’s Box
37. You don’t need to know
38. Your grandmother (grandfather, aunt, uncle, other family member, etc.) doesn’t consider you "family" because you’re not blood-related.
39. Ohh, your so lucky you could be someones love child.
40. What’s it like being adopted?
41. You don’t look like your family, are you adopted or something?
42. Get over it!
1. You’re special because you’re adopted.
2. You were chosen.
3. Your mother loved you so much that she gave you up.
4. You’re lucky.
5. It doesn’t matter.
6. You shouldn’t be angry.
7. You shouldn’t be sad.
8. You should be careful what you ask for -- you might get it.
9. By finding her, you’re invading her life.
10. Why are you interested in someone who didn’t want you ?
11. Why do you want to find someone you didn’t ever know?
12. Ever since you started searching you have become obsessed.
13. ...but your adoptive parents love(d) you so much.
14. ...but you’re hurting your adoptive parents
15. Babies don’t remember anything.
16. You’re being ungrateful!
17. You have no respect for your adoptive parents.
18. Get over it!
19. If she loved you, she wouldn’t have given you away.
20. You’re being over sensititve
21. Forget it and get on with your life.
22. Why would you want to find her?
23. It’s the past, you can’t change it.
24. You have no right to disturb her life.
25. ...but your adoptive parents really wanted you.
26. What’s wrong? Weren’t your adoptive parents good enough?
27. You’re being selfish and disrespectful!
28. Didn’t your parents do a good enough job?
29. How many mothers do you need?
30. Oh...you’re one of them?
31. You adopted children should respect her privacy.
32. ...but you look like you come from such a good family.
33. ...but you don’t look adopted.
34. Well, maybe that’s the way it was meant to be.
35. If she didn’t want you then, why would she want you now. You’ll get rejected.
36. You might be opening Pandora’s Box
37. You don’t need to know
38. Your grandmother (grandfather, aunt, uncle, other family member, etc.) doesn’t consider you "family" because you’re not blood-related.
39. Ohh, your so lucky you could be someones love child.
40. What’s it like being adopted?
41. You don’t look like your family, are you adopted or something?
42. Get over it!
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